The older you get, the more your immediate priorities change when it comes to relationships…
Then I also guess that when I was younger, perhaps my greatest concern was how cute the boy was and how cute the two of us could look together.
I didn’t absolutely guess about compatibility or sharing life responsibilities – although I also didn’t guess what those were yet. I thought life would be simple and I assumed that everything would just work itself out if the two of us loved each other enough. It turns out, nope… Love is definitely a lot more complicated than attraction and expectation. I’ve l gained this strenuous way. In fact, at this point, I’m so jaded when it comes to relationships that I am way more interested in practical matters than attraction. When I start dating someone, these afternoons I would rather guess about their financial management, cash handling skills, and interest in household appliances than their number one sites to eat… However recently, I started seeing somebody modern and started instantly talking about his philosophy behind heating, ventilation and A/C equipment. I guess it was unusual when I inquired if he had a smart control unit or an old-university dial control unit… But I wanted to guess if he had an indoor air temperature control proposal already programmed at his house. I was just feeling curious if he officially called out a heating, ventilation and A/C contractor to inspect and professionally repair his central heating and cooling system. I absolutely needed to guess how he felt about energy efficiency, energy star ratings, and carefully monitoring our yearly heating and cooling equipment usage as well… Then at the end of the first date, I needed to guess if the two of us share heating, ventilation and A/C philosophies so the two of us could possibly share a comfortable home… But he never called myself and others again.